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Friday, January 26, 2018

7 Ways To Spot a Fake Friend

It took me a little too long to write this post, but I had idea already some time ago. I was unlucky enough to have experience with fake friends several times. And they had some things in common which were definetely signs that they're no real friends, but I ignored it, cause didn't realise that's something wrong about it or wanted to save ''friendship'' that won't going to last anyway. Sometimes I regret I spent too much time on friendship where I wasn't happy in and didn't say ''bye'' earlier.

When your friend calls you only when bored. It's pretty annoying when a person who you like only remember about you only in long lines at stores or when bored at a bus and expect you will entertain him everytime when he's bored and have nothing to do, but in 99% of situations he's busy for you, but then you see him online on Facebook and Instagram.
When he wants to be with you because his other friends are busy and then you go somewhere together and their friends call him and say that already free and your friend leave you. It's hard to believe, but I have situations like that and I felt super awkward and like I'm kind of a bad friend cause my friend leaves for better one.

When you number #42 on your friend's list. That's really weird when you talk on the phone with someone basically from morning to night and meet a few times per a week and he saysL: ''we're not friends, we're kiths''. What's then even ''friends''?
Also it pretty hurts when you call a friend to wish happy birthday and then you find out he's currently have fun with his 30+ friends that were invited,  but you, who was spenting everyday with him and who was thinking you two are best friends and celebrated your own birthday only together isn't invited.
He's more interested in his phone than you. It's so annoying. I never check my phone while I with my friend. Maybe I'm weird for 21th century, but I wish everybody do the same thing.
When your friend always criticise and never say compliments. I had a friend with which I was very close during a few year and always ignored that fact that she was criticising me and all things I do literally all the time we were together. It's even good when your friend motivates you to become a better person, but when you change for better and friend is searching for other things to criticise you isn't okay.

When your friends don't believe in you and your goals. Real friend never should make you become hopeless and break your dreams. Don't let nobody say your dreams are silly. Real friend will help you even to find a rainbow unicorn  (I don't mean drugs haha).
When you always pay. It's okay to pay sometimes for your friend and make to him more presents, but when friend ask you pay always during a few years. In cafes and even in stores and buses is way too much. 
It's weird when you're poor but still being used for money and feel rich haha.

Do you agree with these things? Or think real friends can make some of them?

3 comments:

  1. There's a lot of fake people out there

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