We're always sad and depressive. A few of the most optimistic people I've ever met have disabilities. My life experience showed me that most of them are big optimists.
We don't dream big. I have feeling like some people think we don't have dreams, goals, we like sort of waiting for death because life is sad and not fair. Haha. Most of us have dreams (and they are not about better health). Most of people I've met are big dreamers.
People with disabilities don't have chances to do something big in their life. I know a few people who has very bad health but they did unbelievable things. That's so inspirational! So it answers at question about dreams too, because everything begins with a thought.
Disabilities are always visible. My main disability isn't visible at all, so we can't say if a human has a great health or not just because we see that human.
The lives of people with disabilities are totally different than the lives of people without disabilities. Everything is the same, but we have some difficult situations because our health.
We love when people feel sorry about us. No, no, no... Never say that I'm poor, nothing makes me more angry than that.
We're very strong. I needed add something good too. Sometime I hear from people that I'm strong, but actually I don't think so. I just adapted to life I have, because I always was like that and don't know that everything can be different.
My health doesn't makes me strong and weak, it's just part of me.
Most of our friends have disabilities. We find friends in places we spent most of our time, so If you don't go to special school or job, I doubt most of your friends have disabilities.
Our husband / wife should have similar disabilities. That's like to say ''you're a teacher, so you should find a boyfriend who's a teacher too''. Like no sense. And that's very hard. I've met a guy around my age and with similiar health problems only once in my life and that isn't fact we could be together. That's just only about love, not something else.
We always talk about our health. 99,9% of time I don't talk about it. Ask my friend!
If you have disabilities, you've made something very bad in your previous life. Well, nobody can be sure in it, but I'm almost sure that's just the worst myth. If I'm not bad in this life, I doubt I was awful in previous one and killed somebody or something like that.
That were the most common things I hear. Hope it was interesting!